Beyond Our Universe

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  • Have None

    Write about a few of your favorite family traditions.

    Growing up I didn’t enjoy the holidays. I thought they were boring. I still do. Religion wasn’t important to me.

    My grandmother made a cake for my dad’s birthday. I enjoyed that. It was very sweet. I miss it. I miss her. I drove her crazy, but she put up with me.

    I did enjoy seeing the Christmas lights. I loved the colors. I wasn’t religious, but I thought the colors were awesome. My husband put up lights in the house 🏠 and I still have them up.  We gave each other presents. My husband knew what he was getting even before Christmas and his birthday. He hated both.  I miss him. He would 🎮 game when he couldn’t sleep. I miss that. He loved killing stuff.

    I even miss him swearing at his game 🎮. My kids miss that too.

    That’s about it.

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  • Trustworthy

    What makes a good leader?

    Without trust nothing works. Government, parents, friends, or a relationship.

    A leader does what is right. Not just for himself or herself. It is not about you, but for all. I haven’t seen anyone who leads for the better. It is for power, control and greed. That they do it for.

    Being a leader anyone can be, but being an honest, truthful one is rare.

    Leaders come and go, but how the world is today. No leader can fix it. My opinion.

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  • My House

    What would you do if you won the lottery?

    Everything needs fixing. Walls, animals in my loft. Electric, windows. I wish I was rich. Plus pipes need replacing.

    Money can’t bring my husband back. I hope I meet a man like him. Friendship is important. Maybe love. 

    Money is important, but friendship lasts a lifetime.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • The Paranormal

    What books do you want to read?

    The spirit realm is real. The place where the dead go when they die. Some linger because they have unfinished business. Others just move on to their next life. Life is full of mystery that intrigues me. There are other realms, where the beasts are. The unknown is full of mystery and questions. 

    The universe is not just us. It would be a waste of space if it was just us. Life doesn’t have to be like us. If we were meant to fly, we all would have wings.

    Reincarnation intrigues me because it does explain our fears, our hopes and dreams. It is like playing a different character but in each life you learn who you truly are.

    Witchcraft intrigues me because it stars nature and what is around us. It is connecting with the spirit realm. Witchcraft is about healing oneself, and it also has a dark side. But that goes with all things.

    Gemstones are beautiful and they heal, they are not just meant for jewelry.  Mystery intrigues me and understanding what is important and what is not.

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  • Deep In My 💜 Heart

    Love stands still

    The silence is so quiet

    I sink into my hole and die

    I feel the breeze on my knees

    My heart says love comes when it comes

    I sit and weep

    Love will come when I don’t expect it to

    Love dies but time will

    Be my light

    Then my sadness will be gone

    The end

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  • Nothing

    If you could un-invent something, what would it be?

    I wouldn’t uninvent anything because there is good and bad in all things. What one does with it, is the issue. We can ruin anything or we can work with it. It all depends on you.

    Computers help write, draw, and express. Plus it gives us more opportunity. We can change with the times, or not. It depends on what you are trying to achieve.

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  • Not Much

    List five things you do for fun.

    I enjoy reading what people think about the paranormal and abilities that people can’t explain.

    People assume science explains everything. That is not true. People do have abilities that your brain can achieve. But tapping into them depends on what you don’t believe, and what you do believe.

    Not all people can do these abilities because they are not meant to. You need an open mind and to think outside the box and not in it.

    We are intrigued by witchcraft and spells and Voodoo. It can scare us or we can have an open mind about them. I read answers on Quora about it and it is interesting.

    Besides witchcraft and the paranormal. I enjoyed going for walks and taking photos of things I like. Trees, nature. You get the picture.

    If we all believed the same things, life would be so boring. Enjoy what you enjoy. It doesn’t matter what people think. What matters is what you think is fun and exciting. Have a fun weekend.

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  • Writing

    What’s your dream job?

    I like writing. Writing helps me to express what I am feeling. I plan on writing books 📚. Maybe doing a Tarot Deck. I like writing poetry too. Also writing helps me find the right words. When I talk I don’t get out exactly what I want to say. So writing is much better. 

    I just want to say. Thank you for following me and liking my stuff. It means a lot. I am sorry I don’t read my followers stuff. But I will. I am still going through a rough time since my husband died. I hope things will get better for me. I enjoy being here. So please be patient with me.  Thank you for stopping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌎.

  • Avril

    Write about your first name: its meaning, significance, etymology, etc.

    I hate it. Every time I tell someone. They say, “are you, Avril Levine?”. The singer. I am not a singer. Life goes on. I was named after my grandfather. My mom’s father. I never changed my name. I don’t like it, but it’s my name.

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  • No Pooping on My

    If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?

    I love cats very much. They cuddle when you are sad, and they know you are angry when they poop the bed and pee too. Plus you don’t have to walk them in the winter time. Cats are funny when they chase the red light. I love them always.

    T.T. is the top photo. My girls.

  • Chips and Coke

    What snack would you eat right now?

    Those two things made me feel better. It still does.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • My Husband

    Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved?

    Saying I love you is one thing, but showing you love someone is another. Words are cheap. With love you do the little things for someone. My husband made my lunch when I went to work, but he wrote a note each time. He told me loved me and that he misses me. He would buy me stuff when he was in the mood. Every day was Valentine’s Day. We would go for morning walks, and night time too. When he got sick, I took care of him. He was my life. Love is about loving your flaws, and all you are. When you start from a friendship the rest of the relationship will bloom even better.it lasted 35 years. When you trust someone that helps too.

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  • Cats  and Crows

    What is your favorite animal?

    Cats don’t have to go for walks in the winter ❄️ time. That is a plus. They cuddle with you when you are sad. Plus they don’t take up the whole bed. I love wild cats too because of how their fur looks.  I like crows because they are black in color. Which is my favorite color. Plus they remember who they hate. They don’t forget faces.  Enjoy your day or night.

    My cats T.T. the black one and Moemoe

  • Both

    Do you spend more time thinking about the future or the past? Why?

    Without a past there is no future and with a future you need a past. You need to learn to know how to deal with the future. What you believe you are going to see, and what is already in front of you. You need to think out of the box and not in it. You need to learn how to prepare. The necessities are for survival. Both are important, without a past there is no need to prepare. We learn from what we see, and sometimes what we don’t see. We need to learn what possibilities are out there. If we don’t, we will lose the war, or whatever we are fighting for. Life should be about all possibilities. If we don’t prepare we die. You choose what is important to you. Living just for today. Or living for tomorrow and seeing another day. Life is a risk no matter what you choose.

  • Writing

    In what ways do you communicate online?

    I reblog something I like. I comment on something I like. I write answers to questions on Quora. I enjoy reading people’s comments. Sometimes I ignore what they write. Why argue. It is pointless. When my husband died and I shared it. I got people especially men who wanted to date me. Go figure. I would rather meet a man in person who lives in my country too. I also need time to heal, my husband died just last year in March. I miss him. I still hope to meet someone to be my friend.  So this is my way of communicating. Writing says a lot about people. Keep writing.

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  • Disability

    What is your mission?

    I am going to write a book about hidden disabilities. People can see people who have visible disabilities and they are understood. But people with hidden disabilities are very misunderstood. They are treated like outcasts. I want to change people’s views on disabilities.

    I believe people with disabilities are treated as if they still live in the 18th century. People treat children and adults like they are stupid and they don’t understand things. We need a new approach and ideas in helping to understand people with hidden disabilities. I believe books don’t teach that. They look at everyone the same. We all are individuals with different needs. We need to think out of the box and not in it.

    I hope I can change some people’s thinking about disabilities people fight every day with. Disabilities that you can’t see.

    I hope this dream comes true.

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  • Nothing

    What could you do differently?

    I am me. If you like me cool. If you don’t like me. That is cool too. I am not here to impress. I am not perfect. If I changed anything I wouldn’t be me. If you change something about yourself, it shows you will do anything to impress. If I change anything it’s my hair color because I don’t like gray and I am doing that for me. Life is complicated, so why change what makes you, you. If everyone would rather be fake, so let it be. Being real is better than being fake. Actions speak louder than words. So be 😎 cool, and be you.

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  • Killing Bed Bugs

    What are your biggest challenges?

    Bed bugs are hard to kill. This is my challenge. I tried killing them with coke. No go. I tried bug powder and it helps. I tried cooling my house but it didn’t work. I want to get rid of them.  They are getting less, so see what happens.

    My other challenge is trying to save money and enjoy it. Life goes on.

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  • Love and Honesty

    What is the greatest gift someone could give you?

    Objects don’t mean anything unless it is given with true love. People say they love me. But those are empty words when it’s an obligation to love you when deep down there other things they rather be doing. I know people like that.

    Love is shown by true actions. Not fake words. Love is unconditional. Love is given freely. My kids love me, and that is good enough for me. I hope I meet a man who loves me the way my husband did. We all deserve love.

    Love shouldn’t be an obligation, but should be real, and actions say more than words can do.

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  • Playing Cards

    Do you play in your daily life? What says “playtime” to you?

    I like playing concentration. No one can beat me. I played my brother’s friend once and he said, never again. He never played me again.

    I miss my grandmother. She played cards with her friends for years. I miss her.

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  • No

    Are you a good judge of character?

    I think people are good, but I am usually wrong about them. I thought people were good hearted, kind and honest even truthful. It is hard to judge a person before you get to know them. So I learned to not assume how a person is, until I get to know them.

    So have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

    Also Happy New Year to my followers

  • Politics Sucks

    How have your political views changed over time?

    When the world was normal everything went as planned. Life was tolerable, but today. There are fewer jobs, more homeless people, and people losing their homes because prices are going up, and up . When will this madness stop? We need people who care about people and that the government should give to their people first and not other countries. We need stability, not chaos. Most politicians care about their agenda and not people who struggle every day. We need change. We need a better tomorrow. I used to think the government cares about their voters, but that is not true anymore. Greed and power change people. Not for the better. There are things that make me angry, but I won’t write about it. I wish humanity would work together, but that will never be. Justice is only for the rich, and poor people who just suffer.

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  • None

    Who are the biggest influences in your life?

    I have learned a lot about people when my husband died. I had help when I needed it. It is not easy to ask for help. Asking for help is like pulling your teeth out. 

    When I told people about bed bugs no one wants to come into my house until I get rid of them. I have learned a lot about people. When everything goes fine they are there. When you have bed bugs sorry not now. It shows people’s true character. I look at life not the same anymore. I believe it is by people’s actions that show what they are all about.

    The only influence in my life was my husband, and now I have to depend on myself. I have met kind people. But I will never feel the same as I did before. People talk and help when they feel comfortable. When there are bed bugs in your house you’re on your own.

    Life is tough when you know people lie and that includes family. When you rely on people you need to watch your back. Trust is difficult when you don’t know who to trust.

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • I go for the moment

    You get to build your perfect space for reading and writing. What’s it like?

    If I want to write I write.  Anywhere is fine. I write in bed with my cell phone. No paper needed. I hope my book will be a good one. It is one I am working on. Plus I am making Tarot Cards and a book. That is in the works. I enjoy time to myself and a book when I am in the mood.

    Happy Holidays and a New Year Thank you for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌎

  • I can’t draw

    How are you creative?

    I am really excited about using an AI program. I say what I want to see and it comes out. I am getting used to using it, and it is fun. I like writing too.

    I created this.

    Happy Holidays and a very good New Year for all

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  • Truthful

    Tell us one thing you hope people say about you.

    My parents taught me not to lie. My parents hid things from me. I know there are certain things you shouldn’t say to people. I am honest, trustful. I keep my word. I want to be remembered for that. I don’t want people to look at me, with a disability, but a person who knows what I am talking about or I should say writing about. What I write about is what I believe in. I want people to look at me as truthful. Lying and even hiding things that should be said is wrong. My thoughts for today.

    Thank you for dropping by and have a good week wherever you are in the world 🌎

  • Fallout 76

    What was the last thing you did for play or fun?

    When my husband was alive he played Fallout 76. He loved killing. He was good. I would sit with him and watch him play for hours. He swore a lot, and died a lot, but he was enjoying himself. I miss him playing.  Before he got sick we would go for walks. I miss that. He was fun to be around. He played all the Fallout games, but fallout 76 was his favorite because he could go anywhere he wanted. I miss him.

    Thank you for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • None

    What cities do you want to visit?

    I like staying home. No passport, no money, no people around to bother me. Not worrying about losing stuff. Home is where I love being.

    Being simple is who I am.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • My Husband

    Describe a man who has positively impacted your life.

    Sorry my husband again. My husband was a man who said what he was going to do and did it. No regrets. He was honest about his views on people and places. He didn’t care if you agreed or didn’t agree. He believed what he was saying without thinking twice. He was a man of his word.

    He was honest, and his actions spoke volumes. He was kind and good hearted. You could trust him. He believed in me and wanted me to live my dream of being a writer. He loved me for me. He told me I was beautiful. Even when I believed I wasn’t feeling it. I lost a lot of my teeth, but he still told me I was beautiful. You can’t ask for a man like him. He was my life, my rock. My protector. He had a soul, and depth. I believed in him when no one else did. I miss him.

    He taught me to stand up for myself and he told me I have rights which my parents never told me I had. They controlled me, and wanted me to think like them. I am the opposite and proud of it. He gave me opportunities and my parents just gave me grief. The stress they gave me, but my husband always told me I am okay, and that I am proud of you. That is 💕 love. It’s funny that strangers are more like family, then family.

    His love keeps me going and my daughter and son too. If I had to trust one person, it would be my best friend and husband. It is sad he is gone. But I know he is watching over me and his kids in the spirit realm.

    Love never ever dies.

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  • No

    Is your life today what you pictured a year ago?

    When my husband died my life changed big time. I had to get out of my comfort zone and do everything I was afraid of. Anxiety stops me from leaving my home, but I fight it. At 63 it is scary to feel alone, and not feeling protected. It is not what I wanted. His health was getting worse. I knew it would come, but it was too fast. I write about him a lot because this is my way of grieving. I cry but then I know what I must do, and that is move on and heal myself in many ways. Winter is scary for me. But I cope. Spring, summer and fall I enjoy. Life is not the same without him. I wish I could hold him once more, and tell him he is my everything, my best friend and that we will meet again in another life. Spiritually I know he hears my words. I love my soulmate because that is who he is. He makes me laugh, he makes me cry, and he makes me angry that he is gone. But my heart and soul will never let him go.  Rest in peace, and drink lots of ☕ coffee and play fallout 76. His favorite game 🎮. In the spirit realm. Some day I will be there too. Watching him play, and going for long walks in the sky.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • Trust

    What skills or lessons have you learned recently?

    I learned to trust again, but I am aware that anyone can lie, and seeing people’s actions is very important to me. I have learned to trust my gut. When something sounds wrong I deal with the situation before it happens. My intuition is getting stronger and I am happy about that.

    Trust is earned. I have learned to love myself and that I will get through what is thrown at me. My kids believe in me, and that keeps me going. My cats give me comfort when I cry and I know they love me too.

    Remember trust comes with a price. I say that because when there is no trust nothing works. Business or personal.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • Weight Training

    What are your favorite physical activities or exercises?

    I like weight training. It is a good way to release your anger.  It’s neat to see muscles that you didn’t know pop up. It is just a good feeling to see I accomplished something in my life. I still have a lot of work on myself to do. But it’s hard not having my husband around. But I have been a fighter all my life, or well until 63 which I am. I just need a nudge to do it. My kids will encourage me if I ask, but they are adults now. Boy times fly.

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  • My neighbor’s grandson

    What is something others do that sparks your admiration?

    He did my driveway without wanting any money. He did it because he saw what I was going through. His kindness made my day.  There are many young people who do that. Life is not the same because my husband is not with me. People help me in a time where I feel lost. I admire that because they don’t ask me anything, they do it because they want to. There should be more people like them. It is funny. Family does nothing, but strangers do more. Go figure.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • Flintstones

    What’s your favorite cartoon?

    I enjoyed that show because when I would come home 🏡 from school 🎒 at lunchtime. The Flintstones were on Monday to Friday. It cheered me up. I hated school. I didn’t want to go back, but I was happy when school was over. I even enjoyed Bugs Bunny 🐰, but I hated Sunday night because it was back to school 🎒 on Monday again. I couldn’t win.

    So thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • Nothing

    What positive events have taken place in your life over the past year?

    You know my husband died this year. March 2025. It has been a sad time for my kids and me. Still have these damn bed bugs. I am waiting for something terrible to happen. I got animals in my loft. I hope next year will get better. Life can be so unfair. I hope you guys are well and doing fine. I am just venting.

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • Nothing

    What is one thing you would change about yourself?

    I have learned that being me is the way I should be. Pretending to be someone else never works. If people don’t like me I don’t care. It would make me crazy to please everyone I meet. Being nice all the time sucks because you don’t get thank yous or your welcome. If I change myself in any way then I lose who I truly am as a person.

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  • Emptiness

    Feeling a sense of loss

    I cannot explain

    The tears running down my eyes

    Feeling alone and scared

    For something mystical I can’t explain

    The emptiness in my heart

    Why did I not the truth

    Lies on lies

    I cry myself to sleep

    I pretend I don’t care but I do

    Where do I belong?

    No where

    My home is emptiness even though it’s full of stuff

    My tears are my anger running down my face

    I am sad and now I am angry

    I am deceived by people I thought were family, but they are not

    Lies, lies and lies

    The end

    Poem by me Avril

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • Night Person

    Are you more of a night or morning person?

    I don’t like mornings. Even though the light is beautiful.  I prefer the dark.

    Night is full of mystery and magic. Night is when stars are out. Unless it’s cloudy. The moon is full of energy where the magic happens. The night is my light.

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • I love Cats

    What are your favorite animals?

    These are my girls. Moemoe and T.T.
    Cats 🐈 are wonderful

    I love cats because you don’t have to walk them in the winter months. When it’s cold and slippery outside. Cats 🐈 are cuddly and cute. Black cats are my favorite because of their color. Black is the color mystery. The night sky. Cats are fun to play with too. Plus I love wild cats too.

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • Family

    What’s the hardest decision you’ve ever had to make? Why?

    Growing up I believed parents are supposed to protect you and teach you things. I grew up knowing the opposite. What I believed in failed me. Trust is gone, my mother-in-law is gone. Nothing I ever did was good enough. It hurts when your partner dies and all you get is stress, and no one says sorry for your loss. I turned away from my family except my brother. Life is sad when you can’t even trust your family.

    I am at peace with my life. No stress and no pretending I love who I hate deeply. I feel free to be me. I am glad my kids think I am a strong and good mom.

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the 🌎 word.

  • Trust Hate Bed Bugs

    Name your top three pet peeves.

    Trust is very important because if you don’t have that. No relationship will work out. I have learned that the hard way what trust is. Trust to me has to be earned. Actions speak louder than words.

    With hate you should know why you hate someone or a group of people. Hate starts wars, kills people who don’t even want to be involved in the situation. Hate is pointless. I see too much hate. Humanity should be one but that will never happen.

    Then there are bed bugs.  Bed bugs are insects that can be very annoying. They are hard to get rid of. When that happened to me people didn’t want to be near me, or come into my house. This shows me that people can be paranoid not to do their job. I feel black balled and forgotten. Bed bugs are annoying, but I didn’t create them. Sorry I am venting. This shows people’s true character.

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • Writing

    If you didn’t need sleep, what would you do with all the extra time?

    I like to write ✍️ . Read books on stuff I like. I would be doing weight training. I think it is fun. I would go for walks. Drink lots of coffee ☕ especially ice cappuccino. 

    That is about it.

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  • My Kids

    Who are your current most favorite people?

    My kids are beautiful people. They are caring and honest. They are truthful. They have been through hard times with their dad gone. He died, but they keep on living and doing what they can. They are my life, my happiness and my joy. Without them I would be lost.

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • Gemstones

    What book are you reading right now?

    I read about stones I like. I look at their spiritual meaning. Gemstones are beautiful.

    I have one I don’t know the name of can someone help me figure it out ? Thank you

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • In The Rain 🌧️

    Here I stand holding your hand

    In the warm rain

    Laughing and loving you

    Walking your savannah cats by your side having fun

    No umbrella 🏖️

    Walking between the ⭐ stars, like a dream

    Then you 🛑 stop and hold me in your arms

    Wow what a surprise

    Love and tenderness and a kiss 💋

    Then we go in and make love

    The night I will never forget 💋

    The end

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  • I am sharing ‘poetry love’ with you

    https://1drv.ms/w/c/3b208f3c155d555f/IQBxni6_kN6DQZsC23xGRSVrAS1Chl9Wkrj3IRVfM8E6dAQ

    Just a poem about love

    I am sorry it looks like this. I enjoy writing poetry and I wanted to share this poem with my followers. Enjoy

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • Beaches

    Beach or mountains? Which do you prefer? Why?

    I would not go swimming, but to walk along the beach on the warm sand. Then sitting and seeing the sun go down. Watching the silver on the water shine. Even seeing the stars shine brightly.

    Little poem

    Walking with you

    Feeling the breeze on us

    Holding hands

    And taking a little squeeze

    Feeling our love blossom

    Wow what a walk

    The end

  • April

    What’s your favorite month of the year? Why?

    April is the beginning of 🌼 spring when grass is green and flowers starting to bloom. The days get longer and ice is gone. The tree buds start growing again. Beautiful how nature works.

    It is the same month I met my guy. April 13th. Good Friday. I remember that day clearly. I felt safe with him. The first thing I said was. “Can I see your eyes”. I said that because eyes never lie, and they are the window to our soul. That is what I believe. That was the best day of my life.

    Life is not the same without him, but my love for him will never die

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  • A Safe Place

    If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

    There is so much anger and chaos living anywhere does not matter anymore. Where I live is okay. My house 🏡 is my safest place. We live in chaos because when very religious groups came to the west, the world became worse. It angers me that people can’t see what I see. People are allowed to be religious, but when you destroy a group then religion itself should be destroyed. I have seen hate, but never acceptance. Freedom is no more. When you are told how to live, then being safe anywhere is out the door 🚪. 

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍 Stay safe

  • No Where

    What is your favorite place to go in your city?

    My home 🏡 is where I like to be. I feel safe, and happy. I feel protected. Growing up I felt I was being watched. That is a very scary feeling. I hated to go out. Even school was a chore. My parents never understood why. I knew something was haunting me. Today I understand why. It is like a bad dream. 🏠 Is my happy place. Where I am safe and protected. Being in the country with nature, trees, rivers, and wild animals I rather be. Life is weird and my life is a story that is hard to believe.

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  • Nothing

    What’s the coolest thing you’ve ever found (and kept)?

    I lose a lot of stuff. The only thing I have is my hair brush. My hair is important to me.

    The one coolest thing I had was not an object but a person. He was my everything. He always had a surprise for me.  He was 😎 cool. I know I can’t keep a person, but he will always be in my 💜 heart.

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  • Jess

    Who is the most famous or infamous person you have ever met?

    He was dating my sister. He was in a band. I was playing guitar 🎸 for people and my parents. I invited my brother and sister but they didn’t want to come. My sister’s boyfriend Jess came. I was really happy about that. After the concert he told me he was proud of me. He will never be forgotten. I hope he is doing well.

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  • Quora and The Paranormal and Instagram

    What are your favorite websites?

    I love 😽 cats very much. They are cute. I like the YouTube channel. It is nice to listen to music. Especially when I am writing stuff. I use Quora a lot. I answer answers for people’s questions. Some people like my answers and others don’t. In time my book will be published. Then I will write other books. I go on Facebook and Instagram and X. 

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌎

  • I Wish

    What will your life be like in three years?

    I wish my husband could be with me again, but I know that is not possible. I would like to have a best friend again. A companion. Someone to cry on, to love again. Someone to please. I want to feel protected, loved, and someone to grow old with. Everyone deserves a second chance at happiness. I want my life to be stable. I also like my books to be published by then. Life would be different with a new partner, but that is the fun part. I hope in time my dreams will come true

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  • Paranormal

    What podcasts are you listening to?

    I am starting to listen to podcasts. The one I am listening to is about 💀 death. There is so much to learn on the paranormal. I find it fascinating that learning about witchcraft can open so many doors. Like, using tarot cards, the pendulum to answer questions. The spirit realm is a fascinating world. Death is not an ending, but a doorway to the spirit realm. Mystery intrigues me because there are a lot of unsolved mysteries. Reincarnation explains a lot about my life. It all makes sense to me. When one 🚪 door closes another one opens.

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  • Math

    What was your favorite subject in school?

    I would sit in the front seat of my dad’s 🚗 and he would drive me to school 🎒. I enjoyed math and I learned my times tables. I could add 3 columns fast. My brother and sister liked sitting in the back. It is funny, but I wasn’t fond of reading, but now I read when my kids are out. Which once in a while. I write when I get a chance.

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  • Being Online

    How do you manage screen time for yourself?

    I look at everything I am on. I spend a quick glance on some of them. Others like here I look at every day, but I can’t read everyone’s stuff. I try to read what I can. I answer questions on Quora and I am there a lot.  I am working on my book, but that 🛑 stop and go. I enjoy being here.  Thank you for dropping by and have a good day or night 🌉 wherever you are in the world 🌎.

  • 10 Years Old

    Is there an age or year of your life you would re-live?

    When I was ten I met my husband, but I didn’t realize it then. He was cute, and his eyes were beautiful blue eyed 💕. He was blonde. He remembered everything about me. What I wore. My hair, and my bear I carried and his name. Even putting icecream 🍦 on his 👕 shirt. We talked for half an hour. His mom said, “it was like we knew each other.” We met again, but that was a quick glance. The third time we met. I said,”he’s mine.” The third time we met I asked for him to take off his glasses. His eyes were so beautiful. The day we met. Was the day my life became happy 😁 and content. He saved me and I saved him. Life without him, is like an empty box. When we meet in another life. The box will be full again. He was my rock, my love, but best of all he was my best friend. Life without him will be hard, but the memories will keep me going.

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  • My Grandmother

    Describe a family member.

    My grandmother was a very special woman. She could sew and watch t.v. at the same time. She cheered me up when I was down. She was truthful with me, and she listened to me. We enjoyed the same shows. She cared about what I did. She was a great person. I would go to the beach with her. She played cards until early morning. I miss her. I didn’t know my grandfather. But I wish I did. They were 11 years apart, but their love was priceless. Life was not the same when they died. I hope I meet them in another life.

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  • East Meeting West

    What’s something you believe everyone should know.

    This is political and religious at the same time. There are many people who believe, be kind to all human beings, but sometimes we need to understand what religious people and leaders are . They want to control all people especially women. We were never meant to mix the religion of middle eastern culture with western culture. Religion starts wars. Sorry to say. We need our freedom back.

    Sorry needed to vent.

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  • Never Giving Up

    What does it mean to be a kid at heart?

    Growing old sucks. Being in my 63 year. I thought my husband and I would grow old together. I don’t want to be just a cat 😺 lady. I love 😘 him, but I don’t want to be alone.

    When my hair fell out, and it turned 🤍 white. I hated it. I colored my hair, and I started to wear makeup 💄. So my nose runs and I can’t win. Life sucks 😞.

    But what I believe is, never feel old, keep thinking positive. Even when you want to scream. Even when things are tough, just keep in your 🙂‍↕️ head. I am a kid at 💜 heart. I am not giving up.

    I still love ❣️ cartoons, mystery stuff, and keep my special kids busy with stuff. That keeps me going. The kid in me says. Kids know how to be funny and creative. So that is what I will do. Love yourself and keep saying I am okay. Life is for the living. I know my husband is watching over me on the other side. It’s cool 😎 to think like a kid, and still do what you need to do.

    Thank you for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍❣️.

  • Lots of Stuff

    You have three magic genie wishes, what are you asking for?

    I wish my legs were stronger. They are weak.

    I wish my back was stronger too.

    I wish I had all new teeth. My life has been very stressful when my husband got sick.  When he died. I wish he could come back, but he can’t.

    I wish my wishes come true.

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  • Weight Training

    What is your favorite form of physical exercise?

    I enjoy weight training because it works the whole body.

    It is a great way to let your anger out. Especially if you can’t stand your mother -in-law.  Glass costs too much money, plus you have to clean up. Ha!! Ha!!

    So this winter I am working on myself. I don’t want to feel old. I am 63 years old. I want to feel alive again. I really do.

    Weight training stimulates the whole body, but it wakes up body parts you never knew you had.

    That is my enjoyment.

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  • Holocaust

    What major historical events do you remember?

    My father was a survivor and my grandparents. My grandmother helped people when she was in the concentration camp. She worked with a doctor, she helped him with surgeries. That saved her life. She was a fighter and believed her son and husband are alive. Those thoughts of them gave her hope. My grandfather had my dad with him. My dad saved him. My grandfather was a good man.

    My father I have no respect for. He would tell his story, but there were things I didn’t understand or believe.

    I have learned that war will be again, because no one has learned from the Holocaust. All over the world is fighting with the Palestinians and the Jewish people. Hate never ends. Sorry for venting too.

    I have peace and serenity because there is no religion in my life. When I don’t talk to my parents and mother-in-law I am at peace.

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  • Never Giving Up

    What are you most proud of in your life?

    I had many challenges growing up. Having a disability and trying to live a life and fighting to fit in and find a happy place. I did when I met my husband. 35 years of love and acceptance. Being treated with equality. I had 3 kids, and two of my kids are still with me. I did something I never thought I could do. Be a parent and one day write my book or maybe books. This is what I am proud of. When my husband died I lost my protector and my only friend. But I have the strength to carry on and live for me.

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  • Killing Bed Bugs

    What have you been working on?

    I hate those tiny little creatures. They destroy so much. Since my husband died in March they hung around and I still can’t get rid of them. Does anyone have suggestions? I haven’t been writing because they keep me up at night. People have given suggestions and nothing works. I tried vinegar that does not work. I can’t afford anyone to come in. I have to do it on my own. Life sucks, but I am strong enough to get through this. I needed to vent.

    Thank you for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world.

  • Books 📚

    What’s something you would attempt if you were guaranteed not to fail.

    I always wanted to be a writer. I used to write poetry. I am going to start writing poetry again. I even want to write 📚 books. I hope you enjoy my writing.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌎

  • People with Disabilities

    If you had a million dollars to give away, who would you give it to?

    People who have a disability don’t have the same advantages as someone who doesn’t have a disability. People with disabilities still live like it’s the 1800s. I say that with anger and frustration. When you are different you are treated like you are dumb and that you don’t understand life. That is not true.

    Just because you can’t say what you feel does not mean they don’t understand. They just don’t have the words.

    I would give people who can’t afford schools for people with special needs. I would want to write a book about disabilities that you can’t physically see. Those are the people who are lost and alone. They are misunderstood. Anxiety and fears can lead to disabilities. Life is complex as it is, but people who don’t have a disability don’t know what it’s like living in a world of hate and being judged before saying a word. I told someone once. It is like living with a two edged sword. You are looked at as a very disabled person, or normal. The middle is where people like me are. You can’t see my disability, but you are  looked at as a strange person. I would like people to understand there are a lot of people in this position. We live in an unfair world 🌎.

    It is nice to be heard and taken seriously. When people listen to you, your life can change for the better. Listen to your children and protect them when you need to.

    Thank you for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍.

  • Depending On Me

    What was the hardest personal goal you’ve set for yourself?

    I always rely on others to help me with stuff. Now I am on my own. I am proud that I can rely on myself because it shows me I have had the courage all along to do things I was afraid of doing. Being spoiled didn’t help me because I have to learn stuff on my own. After I learn something I know it.

    Challenging myself can be hard, but in the end I am the winner 🏆. Life can be a struggle, but when I learn something. It makes me feel good. No matter my age. I will never give up on myself.

    No matter your age there is something new to learn.

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  • Loving and Trustworthy

    What’s the trait you value most about yourself?

    These two go together. When I love someone it is real and I don’t pretend to. I am honest. I am honest in what I believe. I know through your actions you love me and you are honest with me. I put my ❤️💜 heart into our relationship. I have learned to trust and when I am played I don’t forgive and I don’t forget. It includes family. Trust is very important to me and your actions say so much.

    People say forgiveness is a good way to feel closure. I feel closure when I get rid of what was taken from me. Trust what you believe is right. It is hard, but in the end you win. I have found serenity and peace ✌️. The truth always comes out in the end.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍.

  • My Cousin’s Wedding

    Tell us about a time when you felt out of place.

    I never felt that I was part of my family. Their world didn’t involve me. Having a disability they didn’t know how to talk to me. I felt like an outcast. They would stand in a circle and talk to other family members. I sat on my own. Just because you are family does not mean you belong. Family is supposed to be loving and caring, not mine. I rather swim with the sharks at least they know you exist. It’s sad, but I don’t care anymore. It is funny that strangers find time to talk to me. Go figure. I have learned that if you can’t trust family who can you trust. A stranger with a good ❤️ heart.

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  • Family

    What’s a topic or issue about which you’ve changed your mind?

    When I was growing up I believed my family loved me. I was wrong. I trusted them and all I ever wanted was to be loved and protected. I never felt that way. I always felt I was being watched. I thought my family believed me when I said I was being watched. No one took me seriously. I thought the family was about love and caring. I was very wrong. People say you should forgive your parents and I say never. I believe forgiveness is a weakness because you are giving in to what they have done. I live my life my way, and my kids keep me going. They are adults, but they still depend on me. My husband was my family, and he will always be. Maybe I might meet someone, but I too need a friend. A special friend. My life taught me a lot. Trust people who show you love and caring because they stay when you need them the most. Family means different things to different people, but family should be people you can trust.

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  • My Health

    What details of your life could you pay more attention to?

    Being 63 years old sucks because I haven’t been looking after myself. My husband was more important. He mattered. He relied on me. His health was going from bad to worse. He is in a better place now.

    Now it’s my turn to look after myself. I am going to start weight training again and riding my still bike. It will be my challenge to do it. I am a fighter, and it is my time. I need to love myself.

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  • Quiet Times

    Your life without a computer: what does it look like?

    I would be writing my book on paper 📜. I would enjoy coffee time, and sit and watch the trees move in the breeze. I would listen to music on the radio. But with computers and cell phones I can write and watch the wind blow and listen to music all at the same time.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • Writing/Mom Hood/Wife

    List three jobs you’d consider pursuing if money didn’t matter.

    For a long time I wanted to be a mom and teach my kids about life, trust and to communicate. I really wanted to be a mom.  So I did.

    My husband and I have been married for 35 years and it will be 36 years together this year. He died this year.  He is not suffering anymore. He will not be forgotten. It is not a job, but it has its benefits.

    Writing keeps me busy so I like to write ✍️. This is easier than using a pen. I save on paper too. I hope down the road my books 📚 will sell.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍

  • Living

    What things give you energy?

    Energy is influenced by anger

    Energy is influenced by sadness

    Energy is influenced by my kids

    Energy is influenced by the weather

    Energy in the winter keeps me inside

    Energy through music heals me

    Without energy I would not be here

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  • Aliens and Paranormal

    Which topics would you like to be more informed about?

    I always felt we were not alone. Alien beings who are they, and what form are they? Are they dangerous or are they peaceful beings? Or both. The sky is so massive that it would be a waste of space if it was just us. How many other planets like earth are out there? I always wondered about that. It would be a waste of space if it was just us. What abilities do they have? I also wondered about black holes and where they go? Is it a future hole, a past hole or maybe the future. Who really knows.

    I have learned about paranormal activity. The spirit realm where spirits fly. It is a very interesting subject. There are other realms too. The paranormal is something you don’t see with your eyes, but you feel their presence. Some people can see spirits. Those people think outside the box, and have an open mind. Life is not just us but so much more.

    We are never alone, but so much is hidden from us because if we knew the truth it would change the world 🌍.

    It is something to think about. Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌎.

  • Saxophone 🎷 Music

    What would your life be like without music?

    Growing up I enjoyed music. I love, love songs mostly.

    My parents listened to classical music and that sucked. Opera no way.

    Rock and roll that was okay. Guns and roses, Motley Crue, Cinderella and others.

    When I started to listen to saxophone music 🎵. I love, love songs mostly I mostly enjoyed it because there was no singing. It was peaceful. It calmed me down when my parents left and my mother-in-law went home 🏡.

    There was another reason I enjoyed saxophone 🎷 music. I played it in my past life. I just felt a strong connection to it. I can’t play it now, but I love to hear the music.

    Without music how could anyone walk down the aisle at their wedding. So without music it would be boring.

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  • No

    Do you see yourself as a leader?

    I am not a leader or a follower either. I write to open peoples thinking in a different light. Sometimes someone’s words can hit a nerve. Or it changes someone’s thinking.

    A leader tells people what to do. I don’t like to tell anyone what to do. Just like I don’t like being told what to do. A leader can challenge someone’s thinking to think like him or her. That is a choice.

    A follower does not question anything because that person wants everyone to like him or her and they want to fit in.

    A leader can be a good one or maybe a bad one. It all depends on what you believe to be true.

    A follower does not believe in themselves and that is sad. They have a hard time making choices. We have to learn that our voice matters, and it does. Even when no one listens. Whatever you do, it’s your life.

    Challenge yourself and make your own choices.

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  • Weight Trainers

    Name the professional athletes you respect the most and why.

    I respect the men and women who work out. It comes with hard work and dedication. It takes time to exercise, but eating right and good sleep makes all the difference.

    I believe in weight training. It is fun and exciting to see the changes in your body. It is better than breaking glass because you don’t have to clean the mess. Plus it’s not messy.

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍.

  • Weight Training

    Share a lesson you wish you had learned earlier in life.

    Being 63 sucks because having leg pain and arthritis does become a pain when you need to clean your house. Also other reasons too.

    Weight Training is the best exercise because it does the whole body. Weight training is not just for men. Women can do it too.

    It helps release anger, and opens up muscles you never knew you had. You also have a sense of pride in yourself of what you can achieve. You are never too old to make yourself better.

    Wishing to do something is one thing, but doing it is another. When your mind, body and soul is alive you can achieve anything.

    Enjoy your day or night wherever you are in the world 🌎.

  • Beyond This Planet

    I stopped writing about my journey and I did answer questions people asked. I lost my focus when my husband died, but now I need to write about my journey.

    I believe we are not alone, and that spirits are very real and that they are connected to us. Some are spirit guides and others are lost spirits that have unfinished business.

    I write answers on Quora and I answer questions with honesty and that I believe with my whole heart and soul. I know a lot of people think I am nuts, but I don’t care because I know what I believe is real and it is not my imagination.

    Spirits can hear our thoughts good and bad, and they know our fears. Spirits can be good and others are mean and cruel.

    I look at life outside the box and not in it. Which means. I question everything. My life has been hard, but what I believe I chose to believe. No one told me to believe, I made that choice.

    People say all of this is your imagination and I say if it was then why do you believe like I do in spirits. Why are there books and movies on this subject? Because it is real. I believe because I feel them, and I have been saved by spirits. I had many close calls. I am still here thanks to my spirit guide. I am writing books on this subject and I am writing about witchcraft too. Witchcraft is also real. But that is for another blog.

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the 🌎 world.

  • None

    What’s your favorite word?

    There is one word I do favor when it comes to friends and relationships. It is trust. Without trust and honesty you have nothing.

    Trust is being reliable and there for a person in time when you need someone to cry on, and to listen to your struggles and hardships. Without trust you end up relying on yourself and you try to trust a person but you think to yourself what is going to happen to you, and when will my relationship end.

    Trust is very important and when you have been screwed over your whole life you question everything. Life should not be like this but it is.

    I hope I can trust again, but proven it will take time. I have learned to trust one person, me. That is a start.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌎.

  • Never Had One

    Describe your ideal week.

    I wish I had a good week or even a good day. I am sorry to be a drag. When my best friend and husband died. Everything went to hell. I find out I have bed bugs and nobody wants to come into my house. I feel like a plague. Life can be so unfair.

    People tell me I am strong and I am doing things that I need to do. Inside I feel like screaming and crying and no one cares. The only one who thinks of me is my brother. When you trust your family they stab you in the back. You end up on your own.

    Writing is the only thing that keeps me going. I wish life was better. Maybe if I am lucky it will get better. Sorry to depress people who are following me.  I hope next year will be better.  I will have a good week when all bed bugs are out of my home 🏡. Then I will be better.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍.

  • Yes

    Are you holding a grudge? About?

    I thought my family loved me, but their actions went another way. My sister had a hard time knowing about me and she didn’t even try. My brother was distant but we are getting closer. My parents and mother-in-law can’t stand her. So they are out of my life.

    It is okay to hold a grudge because you know who you can trust and who not to trust. It takes courage to walk away from family members who lied to you for so many years.

    My life has hard challenges but I am a fighter. I will get through my anger and challenges. My kids keep me strong. Their happiness is important to me. People come and go, but people who truly love you stick around.

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍.

  • Being A writer

    Why do you blog?

    I enjoy writing because my words make sense and all my thoughts are how I want to express myself.  Saying it, my words come out wrong. Plus writing makes people think . When you have no friends writing helps ease the loneliness.

    I always wanted to be a writer. I am working on a book. It is about witchcraft. I will write on other subjects too.  Writing helps me use my imagination too.  I hope you are enjoying my journey. Thanks for following me.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌎.

  • Hearing Your Voice

    Hearing your voice

    Hearing your heartbeat 💓

    Feeling your skin

    Loving your energy

    I miss you

    My love for you is true

    My spirit wants to reach you

    I want to hear your voice

    My love is true

    But I feel alone even though

    I know you are here with me

    In spirit form

    My love will not change

    I know in time I will

    See you again

    Your kids love you too

    I know I have to move on

    Being alone I don’t

    Want to be

    Making a new chapter

    Is not easy

    But I need to smile again

    You will never be forgotten

    Love is unconditional

    You are in my memories

    Always will be

    Love never dies

    The end

  • Happy and Angry

    How are you feeling right now?

    When my husband died it broke my heart 💜 because I would miss his smile and his positive energy. I know he would not be in pain anymore and that was and is important to me. I was with him for 35. Friendship never dies and love never dies. He is at peace now. He is missed. I am glad he came into my life. I hope we can meet in another lifetime.

    What I am angry about is. How he was treated when he was alive. The frustrations he was going through. His mother never listened to him. My parents never did either. I did, and I felt his anger and frustrations. Love I had for him kept him going. When you are full of anger and hate your heart says I don’t want to be here. So listen to people who need to be heard. They will thank you in many ways.

    My husband and my best friend. I miss you and my love will never die for you.

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌎.

  • It Would Be A Town

    How would you design the city of the future?

    Cities are too big. A town would be full of trees, rivers, ponds, and a beautiful park where children can play safely. There would be no crimes, no violence. I wish it could be that way.

    The town would have nice shops and coffee shops. So I can have IceCaps coffee from Tim Hortons. I am allowed to dream. The town would be safe and people would be nice to each other. I can dream.

    The town would have better prices. Things would be cheaper. Food, clothes, and so much better. A town can’t have anything negative. A positive place to be.

    It sounds good, but again I am allowed to dream.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the 🌍 world.

  • My Family

    What daily habit do you do that improves your quality of life?

    My kids who are adults now keep me going. They need me and I need them both. It’s not easy being mom and dad, but I’ll try. 

    When I have energy I ride my still exercise bike. When I get the courage I will get into weight training. I enjoyed pumping weights especially when I was angry.  I tried breaking glass 🍷 but that was a mess to clean up. So I stuck with the weights.

  • My Grandfather

    Where did your name come from?

    I don’t like my name. But I kept it. I didn’t know him. He died before I was born. Life gives you challenges, but it goes on. You don’t ask who your family is. My life would have been better if I knew what my rights are, but I didn’t.

    Today  I live my life my way. I don’t ask for approval. I do what I want, when I want. I still have my name because it was given to me. I like being me. I know when I say something I mean it.

    Names can change, but what I feel, what I believe stays with me for life. A name might change, but what you believe stays with you for life

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌎.

  • Bewitched

    What TV shows did you watch as a kid?

    I saw Samantha do the dishes by twitching her face. I wish I could do that. I still watch her shows.

    The Flintstones, the Waltons, Walt Disney on Sunday nights. Bugs Bunny show.

    I watched The Twilight zone and space shows. Some soap operas with my grandma. I miss her.

    Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍.

  • Night Time

    What’s your favorite time of day?

    Night Time and sit and read, sometimes write. It depends on my mood. I try doing my.

    I do it to drive me crazy.  My Rubic cube.

    Night Time is my quiet time. During the day I get some time to myself when my adult kids are busy with their friends.  I don’t mind when they want to spend time with me.

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    My Rubic cube. I did it.

  • One Day At A Time

    How do you plan your goals?

    I breathe and I see what is important to me and I write what needs to be done. I work when I have energy and rest when I need to. I don’t rush my work that needs doing. I challenge myself to try stuff I am not sure about. I just do what needs doing. If I am not sure of something I google it. My book is slow and stop, but I am not giving up on my dream of writing books. My goals take slow steps, and I have the time to do what I need to do.

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  • Gratitude

    What positive emotion do you feel most often?

    I never felt cared for and loved except for my husband and kids. It is painful that you can’t trust your family. My family is very small, but I know I am loved. My life was tough, fighting for love and acceptance. Being 62 I am starting to trust again. When my husband died I felt alone, but I am grateful that I can trust the people who want to help me get on track and do what I need to do. Being grateful is one thing, but trusting comes with hard work and effort. Life can bring challenges, but I am strong enough to keep fighting for my independence even though I do it alone. My kids keep me going. I am grateful that they keep me going. I still feel peace and serenity in my life.

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  • My Kids

    What motivates you?

    I am 62 years old . I need to be mom and dad. I need to make decisions. Right or wrong I do it. I learned to trust myself because the people I trusted the most lied to my face.

    My kids who are now adults need me. I didn’t want to turn out like my parents so I said, “I will be the opposite of them.” I am happier for it. My motivation is to make my life my way and do what makes me happy. It is challenging, but I can do it. My life, my way.

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  • The Area

    What do you love about where you live?

    There are a lot of trees. The people are friendly. The area is quiet, but once in a while it is loud. Young kids live in my area so I tolerate them. I don’t complain. I do my own thing. My house is mine. I don’t like living in Toronto with too many people. Here it’s not so bad. Where my husband’s grave is I can walk too. I miss him. But life goes on. I listen to my saxophone music and clean my house 🏠. When I am in the mood. Being in this town is nice.

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  • Letting Out Emotions

    What do you enjoy most about writing?

    Writing lets me express what I feel. Telling people I say the wrong words and I lose my train of thought. My words people told me are confusing, but when I write the words that means something with meaning. I believe my writing is the only thing I am good at.

    In the future I hope my book will be a success. That is my dream. Writing is my best friend because talking to myself sucks.

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  • Being A Parent

    What profession do you admire most and why?

    Some parents are really good ones and others are not. We don’t live in a perfect world. We make mistakes.

    Being a parent does not come with a manual. You wing it. You have good days, bad days.

    It is what we feel is right or wrong. Love is unconditional. Love is not perfect.

    Parents have the right to protect their children and if they don’t they are bad parents. Protecting your children is a parents right. Even over-protecting can help save your child’s life. There is nothing wrong with that. Nothing!!!!

    My parents never protected me. I wanted to be the opposite. I would do it all again without hesitation. I don’t care what people think.

    Being a parent is a privilege and not a right. Love is unconstitutional and that is why it is the best job . You don’t get paid, but your kids love is your reward. That should be enough.

    No money can make you happy, unless you have love in your 💜 heart.  That was one of my dreams and I believe I succeeded.

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  • Love

    What is a word you feel that too many people use?

    Love should be special between two people. They should be comfortable together and get to know each other. They should trust each other. Even if you are not married sex can be beautiful or just being obligated to do it. It shouldn’t be forced, but no matter what one does love should be a special moment. Love should be a special moment. People say I love you, but after they do it they say something mean. It is hard to trust who is truthful and who is lying. Love should be romantic and special. Love is a commitment not a quick fix.

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