Beyond Our Universe

Category: friendship

  • Family

    How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?

    I have learned the hard lesson. Rely on me. Trust my gut feelings. I have learned not to trust people. You only get stabbed in the back. That includes family members. When you don’t think like your parents do, or you vote differently. Or you don’t do what they say. You’re bad. If you say something they don’t agree with, they just walk away. My life was based on guilty feelings, and feeling left out of things. It is sad, the family can’t accept who I am. When I go right, they go left. Life is complicated, parents make it worse. If you can’t trust your family, then who can you trust.

    I live my life my way. I do what is best for my kids. I listen to them, and I trust them. My family is three of us. I hope I meet a man to be buddies with. Growing old alone sucked. It really does. My husband who died will be remembered. It will always be my best friend. I trusted him. Family doesn’t have to be blood related. I learned that growing up.

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  • My House

    What would you do if you won the lottery?

    Everything needs fixing. Walls, animals in my loft. Electric, windows. I wish I was rich. Plus pipes need replacing.

    Money can’t bring my husband back. I hope I meet a man like him. Friendship is important. Maybe love. 

    Money is important, but friendship lasts a lifetime.

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  • Deep In My 💜 Heart

    Love stands still

    The silence is so quiet

    I sink into my hole and die

    I feel the breeze on my knees

    My heart says love comes when it comes

    I sit and weep

    Love will come when I don’t expect it to

    Love dies but time will

    Be my light

    Then my sadness will be gone

    The end

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  • My Husband

    Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved?

    Saying I love you is one thing, but showing you love someone is another. Words are cheap. With love you do the little things for someone. My husband made my lunch when I went to work, but he wrote a note each time. He told me loved me and that he misses me. He would buy me stuff when he was in the mood. Every day was Valentine’s Day. We would go for morning walks, and night time too. When he got sick, I took care of him. He was my life. Love is about loving your flaws, and all you are. When you start from a friendship the rest of the relationship will bloom even better.it lasted 35 years. When you trust someone that helps too.

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  • My Husband

    Describe a man who has positively impacted your life.

    Sorry my husband again. My husband was a man who said what he was going to do and did it. No regrets. He was honest about his views on people and places. He didn’t care if you agreed or didn’t agree. He believed what he was saying without thinking twice. He was a man of his word.

    He was honest, and his actions spoke volumes. He was kind and good hearted. You could trust him. He believed in me and wanted me to live my dream of being a writer. He loved me for me. He told me I was beautiful. Even when I believed I wasn’t feeling it. I lost a lot of my teeth, but he still told me I was beautiful. You can’t ask for a man like him. He was my life, my rock. My protector. He had a soul, and depth. I believed in him when no one else did. I miss him.

    He taught me to stand up for myself and he told me I have rights which my parents never told me I had. They controlled me, and wanted me to think like them. I am the opposite and proud of it. He gave me opportunities and my parents just gave me grief. The stress they gave me, but my husband always told me I am okay, and that I am proud of you. That is 💕 love. It’s funny that strangers are more like family, then family.

    His love keeps me going and my daughter and son too. If I had to trust one person, it would be my best friend and husband. It is sad he is gone. But I know he is watching over me and his kids in the spirit realm.

    Love never ever dies.

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  • Love

    Love is kindness

    Love is sweet

    Love is patience

    Love is timeless

    Love is serious

    Love is timeless

    Love is making romance

    Love is faults without judgement

    Love is love

    Love is giving and taken

    Love is love

    But most of all love is timeless especially with the right person

    The end

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  • I am sharing ‘poetry love’ with you

    https://1drv.ms/w/c/3b208f3c155d555f/IQBxni6_kN6DQZsC23xGRSVrAS1Chl9Wkrj3IRVfM8E6dAQ

    Just a poem about love

    I am sorry it looks like this. I enjoy writing poetry and I wanted to share this poem with my followers. Enjoy

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  • I Wish

    What will your life be like in three years?

    I wish my husband could be with me again, but I know that is not possible. I would like to have a best friend again. A companion. Someone to cry on, to love again. Someone to please. I want to feel protected, loved, and someone to grow old with. Everyone deserves a second chance at happiness. I want my life to be stable. I also like my books to be published by then. Life would be different with a new partner, but that is the fun part. I hope in time my dreams will come true

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  • 10 Years Old

    Is there an age or year of your life you would re-live?

    When I was ten I met my husband, but I didn’t realize it then. He was cute, and his eyes were beautiful blue eyed 💕. He was blonde. He remembered everything about me. What I wore. My hair, and my bear I carried and his name. Even putting icecream 🍦 on his 👕 shirt. We talked for half an hour. His mom said, “it was like we knew each other.” We met again, but that was a quick glance. The third time we met. I said,”he’s mine.” The third time we met I asked for him to take off his glasses. His eyes were so beautiful. The day we met. Was the day my life became happy 😁 and content. He saved me and I saved him. Life without him, is like an empty box. When we meet in another life. The box will be full again. He was my rock, my love, but best of all he was my best friend. Life without him will be hard, but the memories will keep me going.

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  • Loving and Trustworthy

    What’s the trait you value most about yourself?

    These two go together. When I love someone it is real and I don’t pretend to. I am honest. I am honest in what I believe. I know through your actions you love me and you are honest with me. I put my ❤️💜 heart into our relationship. I have learned to trust and when I am played I don’t forgive and I don’t forget. It includes family. Trust is very important to me and your actions say so much.

    People say forgiveness is a good way to feel closure. I feel closure when I get rid of what was taken from me. Trust what you believe is right. It is hard, but in the end you win. I have found serenity and peace ✌️. The truth always comes out in the end.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍.

  • A Little of Both

    Are you seeking security or adventure?

    Security is good to have, but there is nothing wrong with a little adventure, and a little romance. Friendship can last a lifetime.

    Just a little note. Thanks for dropping by and have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌎

  • Never Had One

    Write about your first crush.

    When I was a kid I met a boy in the park. I was too young to remember, but he did. That was our first meeting. The second time I was at an AA meeting. We just had a quick smile, but I didn’t realize we met as kids. The third time we met it was supposed to be a double date. We met. We fell in love and the rest is history. I miss him because he died. But my heart is always with him. Love works in weird ways. But I am glad we met.

    Have a good day or night wherever you are in the world 🌎.

  • This poem is about my husband and my best friend

    I never asked to be like this

    I was born differently

    My thoughts and feelings never mattered

    I was alone every day

    No one spoke to me

    My words never heard

    Now today I am alone again

    And now am making friends in a weird circumstance

    My husband gone and nothing is the same

    I challenge myself to leave my house

    My love for him remains the same and no one will take his place

    Love never dies

    My house is not the same

    The smell of wood and his cooking I miss

    Him playing Fallout 76 and killing everything in site

    No more sound but the silence

    It’s not the same without him

    I enjoy writing poetry so check it out. If you want to.

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  • Fighting

    My life is a struggle since I was born

    Nothing I did was ever right

    Had no friends

    And no one cared

    Alone I was and I still am

    No one to talk to because my best friend died

    life is unfair

    No one truly cares

    I fight to live because of my kids

    Cleaning the house day in day out

    What fun is that

    Life just gives me heartache and pain

    Family who does not give a damn

    What I say does not matter

    What I feel does not matter

    My heart wants to die

    But I fight it because of my kids

    I am alone, I am alone

    The end

    Written by Avril

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  • Saying Good Bye

    Today was a sad, happy, angry and warm day to say good bye to best friend and husband. The people were nice to me. My son said beautiful words about his father and my daughter spoke nicely about her dad and the cats. I said a few words and then I cried. I am glad he is not suffering any more. He lived with pain every day, and he couldn’t walk very well. His heart was weak, and he didn’t want to be here. He was in the hospital until today. The place he hated. Now he is in a place where he feels better.

    Life is short so make the best of your relationships. Love the people who you are close to. This is my way of saying good bye. I feel him spiritually with me and that helps me cope. So have a good day or night. Don’t fight with your soulmate or wife or husband. Love should always be good and kind.

    Thanks for dropping by Avril

  • Freedom

    Daily writing prompt
    What does freedom mean to you?
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    Freedom means you have a choice how you want to live your life. If you want long hair, or short hair that should be up to you. My parents controlled me and how long my hair would be. Today I am 62 and my hair is long and I like it.

    Freedom is believing in what you want to believe and not be swayed to what others want you to believe. It goes for politics too. Freedom is the right to go wherever you want to go and be with who you want to be. Let no one tell you how to live and what to believe in. In the end the choices you make are up to you.

    Love should be unconditional. It should be agreed between both parties. How you perceive love and what you want out of a relationship. Love should be friendship first and later the icing on the cake. Friends lasts for years. Life is not simple, but when you live it your way it makes everything worth your while.

    Freedom is not feeling trapped in a relationship where you do not want to be. You need to feel good where you are, and where you see your life. When you have someone to grow old with that is worth your weight in gold. Being rich or poor does not matter, but your friendship and trust should be the first thing on your list.

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  • My Husband

    Daily writing prompt
    When is the last time you took a risk? How did it work out?
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    My husband and i met when we were kids. We did not know we would meet again. We again, but we did not recognize each other. It was a quick smile. The third time we met was on double date. His friend did not show up, but we did meet for the third time and this time it stuck. Moved in with him 3 months after and married the year later and 35 years gone by. Sadly he died this year 2025. He will always be the love of my life. This month would have been 36 years together. love never ever dies when you love someone no matter what happens. I have no regrets and I would marry him again if I had the chance.

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  • None Believers

    People say the spirit realm is not real. It’s just your imagination. If you have lived my life you would say. Yes I believe. Everything in my life was planned even before I was born.

    I had many weird things happen in my life and if you lived my life you would say I don’t want to be here anymore. Life is not black or white. Reincarnation is very real and spirits can manipulate your energy and your mind at any time.

    Spirits can project negative feelings that can anger and drain you. They can make you fight with your partner. When you can’t heal your partner, it can break you down. My husband died quickly and I did write about him before.

    This was a test in my life so I would kill myself and just give up. I am still here. This is a story of patience and inner strength. When someone tells you spirits are real they are.

    They can feel your fear, they can touch your hair and they can make you so cold. They can give you night mares. You are not in control and they know you can’t do a thing.

    Stop and think about what I said. Spirits exist and they do have the control. Your dreams are a gateway. It can eat you alive.That’s good or bad.

    I hope people don’t have to live my life because it is hell. when you can’t live a happy life and it’s full of tears and hate you cannot trust anyone but the man who kept you safe, you would be lonely too.

    But I have the strength for my family and keep moving on until I am with my husband again in the spirit realm. It is a doorway to a better place.

    Sorry for the sadness, but this is the way I deal with my sorrow.

    Always keep in mind you can be touched by a spirit or two.

    This is a true story.

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  • Dedication To My Husband

    My husband died on St. Patrick day. I couldn’t do anything to save him. We were together for 35 years. We married for 34 years. He said when I moved in we were already married.

    His death was quick. He said I can’t breathe and he fell down. I couldn’t pick him up. So many people came. Life is not the same without him. He was not a happy person. He was in pain and he couldn’t walk for long periods of time. He had diabetes. He found out his heart ❤️ was weak.

    I know spiritually he is here with us. My house is cold a lot. I feel his presence, so I wear my robe a lot. I am glad he is in the spirit realm. Freedom is a blessing. No pain, which I am happy about and no damn 💊 pills.

    So cherish the people in your life and be truthful and honest. Love never dies unless you make it .

    The love of my life is gone, but my marriage will never die. He can’t be replaced. He would have done the same for me .  When your partner is sick, help him or her heal and make sure you tell them he or she is not a burden.

    Love is beautiful and precious. Especially when you know that person loves you and your faults.

    Good night or good morning

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  • None

    Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to.

    I am happy with my life now. My husband is my life now. That’s good enough for me.